it seems this one is a fairly ancient paradox which goes a bit like this:
the seducer asks 2 questions of a woman :
1. will you give the same answer to this question as to the next ?
2. will you go to bed with me ?
and the stipulation is that only yes/no answers are allowed
given those conditions, the answer to #2 will always have to be "yes"
however, in the real world things wouldn't work out quite as logic seems to dictate, mainly for 2 reasons :
1. most people would not want to give a clear yes or no to #1, the most likely answer being "it depends"
2. even if people have been logically cornered doesn't mean they will go along with the logical conclusion if it doesn't match what they really want to do
in short paradoxes often arise from the use of absolutes rather than the shades of grey that world usually consists of
